This is probably my life in a few years...
Monday, July 27, 2009
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Broken Hearted!?
One of my friends recently went through a horrible break-up/ending. Really not sure what to call it. However, I found some quotes that will hopefully help. Peace and Love.
"I dont miss him, I miss who I thought he was."
"Don't Cry Over Someone That Won't Cry Over You."
"Isn't it funny how you can think you're completely over someone but if you drive past his house, stumble upon a meaningful song you both shared, or even get a glance of him on the street....just in an instant, it can change all that. And you start to remember the pain. And that hollow space is feeling more and more like the Grand Canyon with every second that goes by. But you bury these feelings deep down, so deep that you're sure no one will be able to tell. To the outside world, you smile and act like nothing is wrong or will ever be. Everything's just perfect. For that split second that you've locked eyes, a tiny whisper, say 'make this last forever, only and just this moment forever and ever'. But after a second or so, you go along your own merry way, all the while home realizing how much you do miss him, how much you still love him...and it sticks with you for days, weeks, maybe months, until fate decides to hand you another one of those unexpected moments. And then you finally understand the worst feeling in the world is when the person you love most is standing right next to you, yet you can never have them.
"Sometimes I wish I had never met you, because then I could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there."
"I'm convincing myself, yes I'll find someone new. I won't be alone and I won't be with you. You are waiting for me to crawl back to your side. But no, not this time, I'm keeping my pride. So goodbye forever, I'll be on my way. Its going to take time, but I'll be ok."
"He looked me deeply in the eyes. He lied and said "I won't make you cry" and when I thought it was to good to be true, he blew me off and found someone new."
"I only have two words for you... I'M DONE. After everything I've done for you, every second (& third, fourth, fifth) chance that I gave you, you still break my heart.Every time. But it's over now. I finallyrealized that I don't deserve this & honestly...you don't deserve me."
"I dont miss him, I miss who I thought he was."
"Don't Cry Over Someone That Won't Cry Over You."
"Isn't it funny how you can think you're completely over someone but if you drive past his house, stumble upon a meaningful song you both shared, or even get a glance of him on the street....just in an instant, it can change all that. And you start to remember the pain. And that hollow space is feeling more and more like the Grand Canyon with every second that goes by. But you bury these feelings deep down, so deep that you're sure no one will be able to tell. To the outside world, you smile and act like nothing is wrong or will ever be. Everything's just perfect. For that split second that you've locked eyes, a tiny whisper, say 'make this last forever, only and just this moment forever and ever'. But after a second or so, you go along your own merry way, all the while home realizing how much you do miss him, how much you still love him...and it sticks with you for days, weeks, maybe months, until fate decides to hand you another one of those unexpected moments. And then you finally understand the worst feeling in the world is when the person you love most is standing right next to you, yet you can never have them.
"Sometimes I wish I had never met you, because then I could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there."
"I'm convincing myself, yes I'll find someone new. I won't be alone and I won't be with you. You are waiting for me to crawl back to your side. But no, not this time, I'm keeping my pride. So goodbye forever, I'll be on my way. Its going to take time, but I'll be ok."
"He looked me deeply in the eyes. He lied and said "I won't make you cry" and when I thought it was to good to be true, he blew me off and found someone new."
"I only have two words for you... I'M DONE. After everything I've done for you, every second (& third, fourth, fifth) chance that I gave you, you still break my heart.Every time. But it's over now. I finallyrealized that I don't deserve this & honestly...you don't deserve me."
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Quotes From My Very Good Friend Marie
I hope Marie doesn't get mad but I saw her blog and fell in love with some of her quotes and it just seems to fit into my life right now. Love you Marie!
"If I had known the last time I saw you would be the last time, I… I would have stopped to memorize your face, the way you move, everything about you. If I had known the last time I kissed you would have been the last time… I never would have stopped." - F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
"My Dearest Allie. I couldn't sleep last night because I know that it's over between us. I'm not bitter anymore, because I know that what we had was real. And if in some distant place in the future we see each other in our new lives, I'll smile at you with joy and remember how we spent the summer beneath the trees, learning from each other and growing in love. The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds, and that's what you've given me. That's what I hope to give to you forever. I love you. I'll be seeing you. Noah"
"We've all done something in our lives we're ashamed of. Some of us have fallen for the wrong man. Some have let go of the right woman. There are those who have humiliated their parents and those who have failed their children. Yes, we've all made mistakes that diminish us and those we love. But there is redemption if we try to learn from those mistakes and grow."
"I always tell the girls, never take it seriously, if ya never take it seriosuly, ya never get hurt, ya never get hurt, ya always have fun, and if you ever get lonely, just go to the record store and visit your friends." - Almost Famous
"Act One, in which she pretends she doesn't care about him. Act Two, in which he pretends he doesn't care her, but he goes right for her. Act Three, in which it all plays out the way she planned it. She'll eat him alive." - Almost Famous
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Harvey's Advice...
for dating....
Here are a few pieces of advice from Harvey:
1. A man is only doing one or two things with you. He's either playing with you, or planning with you.
You want the guy with the plan for you. If he's "just kicking it" with you, he's just not that into you.
2. Ask a man what his goals are on the first date.
If the man you are dating's main goal is to become the biggest drug dealer in your neighborhood, it'll be good to know before you become too entrenched in his world, so you can get out before you get caught up. Unless of course you're into that sort of thing, then by all means, stay.
3. Institute a three month rule.
According to Harvey, Ford Motor Company requires employees to work for a 90 day probationary period before they awarded benefits such as medical and dental insurance. He says women should treat the first three months with a man as a probationary period and institute a three month rule before having sex with a guy.
4. If you go to your man with a situation that is fixable and he doesn't try to fix it - he is not your man. He is not in love with you.
If your car breaks down and your boo doesn't offer you a ride to work and he has to pass your job to get to his, and you're left to wait for the bus, you have a problem.
Harvey also outlines the three ways a man will show his love for a woman. We'll refer to them as the three P's.
1. Profess
After six months he should introduce you to people as his woman, girlfriend, lady, fiance, wife or something. Not as his friend, and definitely not just by your name. In the book Harvey writes "The man who truly has feelings for you will give you a title. That title is his way of letting everyone within the sound of his voice know that he is proud of being with you and that he has plans for you."
2. Provide
Self explanatory. If a man loves you, he will provide for you.
3. Protect
On a recent visit to Oprah, Harvey tells the story of going deep sea diving with his wife. He's not into diving so he instructed his security guard to swim around and keep an eye on her. The dive masters were instructed that if his wife did not come back up, everyone was to get into the water to look for her. If a man is into you, he will do everything in his power to protect you.I don't know if I really agree but thought it was interesting. <3
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Monday, June 22, 2009
Things I've Learned In College
Life Lessons...
The bolded ones are important!
1. Freshman 15 is not a myth and it is a serious disease that plagues freshman worldwide
2. Drink alcohol in your dorm after the RA comes around to check
3. Never smoke hookah at parties unless you're looking to get sick
4. If your a guy, join a frat because all frat parties will cock block
5. 24 hour mexican food is your friend
6. The study lounge is the only place to get any studying done without being distracted
7. Only 30% of the students stay on campus on the weekends
8. When the dinner menu says Orange Chicken, be prepared to eat some soggy orange some of the dinning food does suck.
9. Make friends with all the people in your hall and yes even the quiet asian kid in the last room
10. If you get caught with alcohol and are asked to dump it down the drain, don't ask the RA if you can keep the bottles for your recycle money to buy more alcohol
11. Sit in the front of the class at least once so you at least know what your professor looks like
12. If you do not have a car make friends with someone who does but you will because everyone goes home on the weekends, everyone.
13. Flipy floppies become as important as soap, shampoo, etc.
14. Asleep by 2:30 am is an early night.
15. Sleep becomes more important.
16. Two meals a day are standard. One for some!
17. You begin to nap again (that is not new).
18. Your bill in the bookstore will almost equal tuition.
19. T.A. used to stand for teaching assistant, now, for terribly articulated.
20. E-mail becomes your second language.
21. Frat parties are exactly like they are in the movies.
22. You never realized so many people are smarter than you.
23. You never realized so many people are dumber than you.
24. Professors are like celebrities: you see them, but they never see you.
25. See every movie under $3 that your campus provides; it's actually proportional to the amount of money you have.
26. You pick up all new lingo.
27. Care packages rank up there with birthdays.
28. College girls are the same as high school girls, just with more freedom...and no curfew.
29. Boys have no shame, they will bark at you 24/7
30. You always thought that worshipping the porcelain god was just an expression...it's not!
31. Even though the beds are long, they are also extra narrow.
32. Things that were a huge deal in high school are now commonplace.
33. Any game can be made into a drinking game.
34. Disney movies are more than just classics.
35. You almost forget how to drive.
36. TV becomes a bigger time sucker than ever before.
37. Keys have never been so important, yet you seem to lose them more than ever before.
38. People that were geeks in high school seem okay now.
39. Amount of alcohol consumed is directly proportional to grade point average.
40. You just don't learn last names.
41. Your teachers just went from Mr. and Mrs. to Prof.
42. Card games never lasted for hours before.
43. Vacuuming happens every quarter, if you get around to it.
44. Boys will dance in college.
45. You are always with your friends.
The bolded ones are important!
1. Freshman 15 is not a myth and it is a serious disease that plagues freshman worldwide
2. Drink alcohol in your dorm after the RA comes around to check
3. Never smoke hookah at parties unless you're looking to get sick
4. If your a guy, join a frat because all frat parties will cock block
5. 24 hour mexican food is your friend
6. The study lounge is the only place to get any studying done without being distracted
7. Only 30% of the students stay on campus on the weekends
8. When the dinner menu says Orange Chicken, be prepared to eat some soggy orange some of the dinning food does suck.
9. Make friends with all the people in your hall and yes even the quiet asian kid in the last room
10. If you get caught with alcohol and are asked to dump it down the drain, don't ask the RA if you can keep the bottles for your recycle money to buy more alcohol
11. Sit in the front of the class at least once so you at least know what your professor looks like
12. If you do not have a car make friends with someone who does but you will because everyone goes home on the weekends, everyone.
13. Flipy floppies become as important as soap, shampoo, etc.
14. Asleep by 2:30 am is an early night.
15. Sleep becomes more important.
16. Two meals a day are standard. One for some!
17. You begin to nap again (that is not new).
18. Your bill in the bookstore will almost equal tuition.
19. T.A. used to stand for teaching assistant, now, for terribly articulated.
20. E-mail becomes your second language.
21. Frat parties are exactly like they are in the movies.
22. You never realized so many people are smarter than you.
23. You never realized so many people are dumber than you.
24. Professors are like celebrities: you see them, but they never see you.
25. See every movie under $3 that your campus provides; it's actually proportional to the amount of money you have.
26. You pick up all new lingo.
27. Care packages rank up there with birthdays.
28. College girls are the same as high school girls, just with more freedom...and no curfew.
29. Boys have no shame, they will bark at you 24/7
30. You always thought that worshipping the porcelain god was just an expression...it's not!
31. Even though the beds are long, they are also extra narrow.
32. Things that were a huge deal in high school are now commonplace.
33. Any game can be made into a drinking game.
34. Disney movies are more than just classics.
35. You almost forget how to drive.
36. TV becomes a bigger time sucker than ever before.
37. Keys have never been so important, yet you seem to lose them more than ever before.
38. People that were geeks in high school seem okay now.
39. Amount of alcohol consumed is directly proportional to grade point average.
40. You just don't learn last names.
41. Your teachers just went from Mr. and Mrs. to Prof.
42. Card games never lasted for hours before.
43. Vacuuming happens every quarter, if you get around to it.
44. Boys will dance in college.
45. You are always with your friends.
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